Everyone goes through hard times at some point. Life is not easy for anyone. There is something to think about it.
Do you know the people who are the strongest are usually the most sensitive!
Do you know people who are most kind are the first ones to get mistreated!
Do you the people who take care of other people all the time are usually the one who needs it the most!
Sometimes just because a person looks happy, does not mean that he/she is happy. We should start understanding people from a different perspective. We need to start analyzing the situation and past of people before judging them. Everyone whether they are your parents, siblings, friends or boyfriend/girlfriend have work and individual responsibilities. They cannot be available for you 24*7. Don’t get upset, if they say NO for once or disagree with your opinion. Appreciate the time and importance they give when they are with you.
EMBRACE THE BEAUTY OF RELATION YOU SHARE WITH THEM
Our generation needs to accept the truth that people can go away, relations can get broke sometimes. I can understand that it is hard to get over some people and forget them after the sweetest relation get bitter with them. You miss their presence in your life. There is no need to suppress your pain. Don’t hide it. Don’t try to run away from it. You have to be strong and try to face it. Just give yourself a little time to get healed and you will feel better in a few days.
But I want to ask you guys something-
Do we need to get over and try to forget them?
Why we cannot live with and cherish the beautiful memories they had given to us? Why we do not end any relationship in a very simple and generous manner? Why we do not try to save a relation by saying SORRY to people whom we don’t want to lose?
Is your ego pulling you back? Or the thinking or trend we the people of society had set that once a relationship is broken, it cannot be mend again the way it was?
I want to let you know one thing that the thread of every relationship is in our hands. We are the who can make it or break it.
I had observed in the past few years that our teenagers had started taking assistance from various intoxicating substances like alcohol, smoking, drugs, etc. to get rid of that pain and feeling of betrayal by the person they love or expectations they had which does not get fulfilled by them.
We are running away from accepting the truthfulness of life. Not a single intoxication can help you to forget people. It will destroy the inner soul of you, affect your peace of mind, ruin your happiness.
Can smoking bring back the love of a person you lost?
The answer is NO, but it can slowly destroy your lungs and surely decrease your life expectancy by a minimum of 10 years.
Can drink alcohol makes it easier for you to forget the memories you made or the time you spent with them?
Again the answer is NO, but alcohol can deteriorate your health, mental peace, the happiness of you and your family and money.
STOP REGRETTING AND START ACCEPTING
Give a thought to it, compromise with your life to forget one person is worth it?
Try to turn the table round with great maturity. Have patience, because we never know what destiny will bring to us. Instead of putting efforts into trying to forget them, start putting your efforts to get them back. Even if your efforts went in vain, you will learn something. Because some people are just not meant to be with us. They come to make memories for you, teach something to you and go away. Now it is your time to respect those memories and keep it happily in your heart forever.
You have only one life so live it to the fullest. Instead of drowning yourself in the ocean of intoxication, do something unimaginable adventures with your life, explore this beautiful world, inspire people, spread happiness wherever you go. If you have good health and a happy life you will find love again. Have faith in yourself and start giving a chance to people because whenever someone goes away from your life they make a place for someone new in your life. Love can happen twice or even thrice. We just need to give ourselves a chance to fall in love all over again.
WHEN YOU ARE LOST, SEARCH FOR INSPIRATION, BUT WHEN YOU GAIN IT BE AN INSPIRATION!!!